Pulse Nigeria Poll: Readers say Daniella should not be desperate for a man

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A worried woman fears for her marriage

39% of Pulse Nigeria Poll voters have advised Daniella not to be desperate for a husband so that she would not be taken for granted.

Daniella, a 40-year-old woman, has been very lucky in everything she puts her hands into, amassing wealth and all the good things of life.

However, one thing has continued to elude her and that is getting a good man to walk her down the altar.

This has given her so much heartbreak and she is now desperately in search of a good man to be her husband.

Read her story here:

"My name is Daniella, a 40-year-old desperate woman who needs help. I never thought that it would get to a time that I will get to pour out my pains especially on a platform like this.

But I think desperate measures need desperate actions and with this mindset, I have decided to come out instead of dying in pains.

Without sounding immodest, I will say I am a self-made woman. I run my business and a director in more than four blue-chip companies. I have three houses and five cars but getting a man to walk me to the altar has been the most difficult thing to achieve.

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I am not ugly and I take good care of myself that I can pas for a 30-year-old woman, so I wonder why men are scared of me. The ones who come to me are either intimidated or fear I will look down on them.

But God knows that I have a heart of gold and I treat any man I go into a relationship with like a king. I make sure I give him everything; my body, heart and money just so he will not feel intimidated but in the end, they will use and dump me.

I am tired of being the Chairlady during my siblings' weddings. I also want to get married but there is no man who is ready to take me the way I am.

In the past, there have been two men who seemed very serious but in the end, they would go the way of others, leaving me heartbroken but I have always had a forgiving heart and willing to give someone a chance.

I have gone for deliverance in several churches where I would spend so much money, go through assignments and fasting so as to get a husband but in the end, I would end up disappointed.

It has gotten so bad that my people snicker behind me, calling me a man or say that I am so haughty that men run away from me.

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In my quiet times, I cry my eyes out, wondering if God is still alive and I was not meant to experience the joys of marriage and motherhood. I am a staunch Catholic and having a child out of wedlock is surely out of the way.

I am tired of being single and with menopause staring me in the face, I am desperately in need of a man to call my own. Is there a good man out there? Please get in touch with Pulse and they will contact me.

Daniella."

The teaser for the day was:

What do you think Daniella should do to get a man of her own?

How Nigeria voted:

Daniella should not be desperate as a good man will surely come her way - 39%

Daniella should take her problems to God - 19%

Daniella should not show a man that she is rich - 22%

Daniella should get pregnant and raise her child alone - 20%

How would you vote here?



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